THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIFT
It's very surprise when i read this article. It's the first time i know that the most beautiful gift in the worlds it's not some thing but there is something more than just a "thing"
Giving freedome is one of the love form. The meaning of freedom is not about 'you can do anything as free as you wish'. it means more than that. giving freedom is giving full trust to responsible on what he/she decide or do
Most people ussualy like to be listen to than to listen to others. I'm one of them. The facts is by listening and paying attention to what they have to say is making us patiency and modesty.
You dont have to look in the eye, or interrupted on what they have to say, or criticise the, or worst judge them. just let them finished what they started. After that then let the condition brought you to the need of opinion that you can give accordinng the situation and condition that you represent from their story. A sweet say or words to support their judgement is also sounds very nice to them.
Silence is Gold.Sometimes we be quiet when we punished, throw out someone, or confuse people . But actually Quiet can also give "space" Mostly when daily we already get use to give advise, arrange, critised, even grumble.
Looks beauty and gorgeous is also a beatifull gift. Beside the beauty of personal looks we can also presents the beauty of home situation such as A vase and beautifull fresh flower in the living room or the dinning table that organized very beautifull.
The Word "Thank You" and Compliment is one of the beautifull gift that often forgotten. Without noticing it we often giving negative thoughts on attitude, or action on people we love. Seemly there's nothing is right of them and the truth is always on my side only. This time Try giving the positive attitude, say it with clear and sicere. Try to remember, How many times in a week that you say thank you on what they have done just for you, and also Do you ever praise of give compliment ???
Willingness to Yield
Not all problems are worth of fighting or argued for morely becoming a big fight. Giving the willingnes to yield as agifts can recovered and cure ill will and makes us realized that No MAN NOR WOMAN are PERFECT in this World
Smile have a very extraordinary Power, moreover that given with sicere, can also be an ice breaker in some relationship, become the spiritin decision making, become the light in the dark, even can become a tranqulizer fort the restless. Smile can also be a signal to open your self to around you. When was the last time You give your smile sincerely to the one you love ?
Presence of the love one is a priceless gift. true indeed that we can also mark our presence by letter, phone, photo, fax, or e-mail. Beeing the beside him/her we can share our feelings, attention, and our love fully and intensifly. For that please make that as your source of hapiness.